Girl Seduction:
First of All, Stop Smoking!
I'm 40 and
recently divorced/remarried (yeah, I know,
but it was before I found out about these lists) so I
would like to see a little more focus on how to get
more out of a long-term relationship, sexwise.
I enjoyed your quit smoking "cigarette tea" tip, even
though it's been a while since I quit myself (1985).
My methodology:
1. promise myself I'd quit, etc... (same as your step
1) and cut back from 1.5 packs to about 6 a day.
By this time, each of those ciggies was like a little
smoky treat.I found myself looking forward to having
a smoke in just a few hours.This was wrong, but how
to make smoking like a trip to the penalty box?
Finally I hit on step 2.
2. Pick a "quit day" but admit that I've been far from
perfect on other attempts, so permit myself to smoke
as many more cigarettes as I want,
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